mols:

Read More

Hmmmm I can get on board with that…

itaqueen:

jayandsilentboob:

missworded:

Nice Man - makes dinner because he’s an adult and the adults in the household do chores because food is necessary for not dying.

“Nice Guy” - makes dinner because he wants you to fuck him.

Nice Man - puts you in bed after you’ve had too much to drink because people who care about one another behave in compassionate ways.  Plus maybe the next day he can make fun of you a little.

“Nice Guy” - puts you in bed after you’ve had too much to drink because he wants you to fuck him the next day.  He wants a cookie for not raping you, and that cookie is sex.

Nice Man - listens to your problems when you’ve had a bad day because you do the same for him.  Grown-up adults can listen!  Who knew?  You may even have sex with your Nice Man because he is awesome and cares about your brain in addition to your vadge.

“Nice Guy” - listens to your problems when you’ve had a bad day because he wants you to fuck him.  Behind your back, he bemoans the fact that you can talk in words and won’t just shut up and open your legs.

Nice Man - knows that true respect is the only way to love and a successful relationship.

“Nice Guy” - can’t understand why he doesn’t have a relationship.  He thinks pretending to listen and begrudgingly not raping someone is respect.  He thinks that bitches only fall for assholes.  This must not be true, for he whines that women aren’t falling all over themselves to date him, an asshole.

Nice Man - understands that “bitches” is derogatory and calls women “women,” like they are grown-up human adults.  Radical!

i can name 10+ guys off the top of my head that fit this, ESPECIALLY the bolded part.

proudly dating a nice man <3

(Source: quote-book)

Margo Maine, Ph.D. (Body Wars)

There was a time that, as a person of the male persuasion, seeing this quote made me really mad. It made me mad that women would assume that I was a rapist; it made me mad that rape was becoming ‘my problem’; it made me mad because, frankly, I didn’t think it was true. I think that this is a really common male attitude when confronted with rape statistics- or, at least, it has been in my purely anecdotal experience.

But now, I know there is no excuse for that. Men need to take responsibility and look at these numbers for what they really are, and what they really, truly represent. Men, don’t be mad at the woman who is justifiably wary that more than half of the men she knows could be her potential rapist. Don’t be mad at that there’s someone trying to rain on your fun, privileged parade where rape is something that only happens on Law & Order. Don’t be mad that you can’t accept that rape is way more common than you think. Most of all, don’t be mad at the woman who was raped and is seeking justice and help for her assault just because you thinks she looks like she was ‘asking for it.’

Be mad at the man who waits in the park to prey on the women who have a right to feel safe in their own communities. Be mad at the man who takes advantage of his drunk girlfriend. Be mad at the man who pushes the issue when his wife isn’t in the mood. Be mad at the man who catcalls, who makes unwelcome advances, who cops a feel.

Don’t be angry at the woman who doesn’t entirely trust you. Be angry at the men who have made her feel that way. Don’t be a part of a problem.

Be a part of the solution.

(via bmsmith623)

This is the best commentary I’ve seen on this post. It’s been around since Sept 2010 and has about 5000 notes, and yet, this is the only commentary I’ve seen that entire time that is basically amazing.

(via blackenedbutterfly)

“Don’t be angry at the woman who doesn’t entirely trust you. Be angry at the men who have made her feel that way.”

(via pompadoursandpincurls)

(Source: iuwaehfoaiuwhefoiaulfjqn, via itaqueen)

(Source: quote-book)